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Jun 28, 2021Liked by Stacey Eskelin

Fuckin' a

When I was in electronics training at Fort Bliss (worked for an Uncle for a few years) some Italian soldiers were going through many of the same courses as ourselves. The only one I semi remember that they taught us was something like "bofungu!" Even if I'm actually recalling correctly, I'm probably spelling it wrong.

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That's great! I'm pretty sure they were saying vaffanculo, go f*** yourself in the ass, because in dialect, the V sounds like a B, and certain syllables are completely elided. Brilliant!

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Jul 6, 2021Liked by Stacey Eskelin

You're almost certainly correct. I mean, this was 45 years ago.

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Oct 18, 2022·edited Oct 18, 2022

I grew up in two Italian homes where the parents and grandparents spoke in Italian so we would not know what they were saying. In one home, the sisters cussed like sailors, all sayings that I have passed on to my own children. The other home, with a smirky smile, my friend's dad said there were no cuss words in Italian, as it was a language of love. Well I still can say all those cuss words. The F word still brings back memories of these sisters, now long gone from this earth, and the teenagers in their homes who laughed every time they cussed.

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