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Cheri Cholger's avatar

We actually remortgaged our house in order to pay off my oldest son's student loans and he pays us instead. He was more and more in debt but couldn't afford to pay more than the hundreds each month he already was paying. Paying month after month and the balance never moving or even going up instead of down. He's paying the same amount each month and is more than 2/3 paid off after 2 years. He doesn't even have a traditional degree because he quickly discovered that wasn't the right path for him so I can't imagine how much he would have owed if he had stayed at the 4 year university. But I still 100% support student loan forgiveness even though it's too late for him (us) to benefit from it. I am very aware of the fact that we could do that for him reeks of our white middle class privilege. I grew up poor and no way could my parents have done what we did for any of their kids.

I want to also chime in that my sons (28 & 24), my daughter-in-law (24) and my niece (18) show me time and time again that there is hope for this world. I have others in my family who are younger and I'm hopeful will do great things, but these four have already shown me that they are ready and willing to fight for what is right. And they (especially my 28 year old) help keep me in line. If I say something like "is that a boy or girl?" about a toddler he says "why does it matter?" and he's absolutely right. He teaches me every day and I'm thankful. I swear, I think I'm a pretty good and decent person. He gently shows me that there is always room for improvement.

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Mark Mastromatteo's avatar

Well written, well said! Thank you!

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