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Ramona Grigg's avatar

You've hit so many points right on target here, Stacey. Bravo!

I'm a Midwestern white woman who grew up in Detroit in the 1950s. I remember the race riots of the 1940s, and, as terrifying as they were, I knew even then which side I was on.

I grew up in a liberal household and always wished we could forget about caste and color and just live together without those artificial barriers.

We couldn't. Not then, and, most astonishing, considering this is the 21st Century, not now. I thought the Civil Rights Movement would do it. We saw the unfairness and the inequities up close and personal, and it seemed we had turned the corner and were ready to put racism behind us.

We hadn't. There were forces against it that grew stronger, mainly in places of power, and we miscalculated their influence until it was too late.

And here we are now, still trying to uplift Black and brown voices in a culture that insists we're Christian and white and straight, and, of course, Republican.

We're not. My own feeling, maybe because I'm this old, is that we need to break those barriers by seeing ourselves together, rather than separate. Not that we look beyond color, or any other difference, but that we celebrate our differences and learn from each other.

My own background is mixed, of a sort: My mother was Finnish Lutheran and my father was Italian Catholic. I love that I'm all of those things, but I'm free to love them. Nobody is looking down at me because of my 'mixture'. Most aren't even aware of it, and it wouldn't come up if I were to appear somewhere looking for a job in publishing, or anywhere else.

My age might do it, but not my color or culture. We need that diversity. What a dull world this would be if we didn't have access to stories and songs allowing us into those other places, meeting those other people, celebrating those differences. We'll know we've arrived when we stop expecting perfection, or imperfection, and just see successes and failures as part of the human existence.

It all needs to change, and if all we can do is write about the reasons why, well, that's what we need to do.

Thank you for this. The conversation is long overdue, yet inevitable.

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Jack Cluth's avatar

"Make it the coolest, most interesting, most subversive, most cutting edge, most creative space you can. Hone your voice. Do your art. Don’t worry what anyone else thinks." Hear hear. I'm trying to do just that. I don't know if anyone will read what I have to say, much less pay for it, but I can work to improve, to become the best purveyor of the best version of my craft I can. And that will have to suffice. Whatever that brings to this world will have to be enough. I can do no more, and I can't bring myself to do less.

What I can't control is how others react to it or what they do with it. What will be will be. And I'm OK with that. That doesn't mean I wouldn't love to be widely read and acclaimed, only that I don't write with that in mind. I write selfishly, but there are a few people (yes, I'm talking about you, m'dear) whose opinions are important to me. If they like what I'm doing, I figure I must be doing something right.

As for inclusiveness...hey, it's not easy being a member of the oppressing class. Being White, Northern European, and (GASP!!) male, I could be a leper and probably be better regarded. I am glad, though, to see other voices come to the fore. I just wish there was room for all of us. It would seem the pie is one-size-fits-all, though.

Ah, well...I concern myself with what I can control and try not to fret over what I can't. Life is easier that way. :-)

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